Healthy Relation,It’s Not Too Hard To Understand

Why couples not stay together too long. Why the story of love and hope, most of time perfection on divorce.

John Gray, The writer of  ’men are from mars and women are from Venus’ Consider that women and men are comes from two different planet. He said that the woman came from Venus, and the man from mars. Both have different nature, hobbies, language, need and love. Due to differences in their nature a misunderstanding starts between them.

The Psychiatrist also believes that women and men have many differences in their nature. Due to differences in their nature they are identified as women or men.Men always thinks that women like their experience while women hope that a man realizes the way they likes. This Creates conflicts between them and slowly begins problems. And now the colloquial Becomes very less between them. Their love story ends in divorce. Understand the Each other language is not a problem. If both concentrating on their colloquial, they can Understand it easily. For better understanding they need to work intelligently. Problem comes when both speak their own language or not try to understand each other language.Yes it is right that Women and Men come from Different planet but if both take own language sensibly then all problems can be solved.

The Women’s Language:-

• When a women talks about their problems, they wants sympathy. Instead of arguing, men should sympathize with them. The more sympathy or satisfied, the woman feel themselves close to men.
• When  women stressed, then they speaks more. So if  men listens carefully, women feels more relax

The Men’s Language:-

• When a men stressed, they likes to go to the cave! I mean is to be alone. Instead of bother them, women should leave them alone. And after sometime all becomes normal.
• Men do not like to talk somehow when he in tension. If they left quietly to hear the things, not mean that they not listening! At the same time the solution of the problem’s around in their mind.

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